man has no concept of time, thinks i should be at my pc all night, morning and afternoon to reply when movement messages at 1am to say we have to play tomorrow
Indeed, three days is not enough to reply to one message. And when did you plan to write to him and arrange a match? Friday or Saturday?
I don't understand why you're writing this here. You can discuss it with your friends all you want, but there's no point in writing it here. Have your tournaments and dictate your rules as you want, but as long as this is our tournament, you will do what we want you to do