Bydand is an emotional descission.
-Don't bydand if you're not sure about having the steel needed.
-Only
think of bydand when you can hear your heart breaking
while red fog comes upon you
-Only
decide for bydand when your steel is still glowing white after you slept over it.
-Think of yourself as a dead man during bydand.
-Don't miss the bydand paths crossroad when the right time comes.
Ofc you need to shiet on "reputation" and the possible costs.
A proper knife is also usefull.