Well for 1) no one is asking you to be. Crouching while your teammates are fighting is "delaying". Taking time to spew shit at people while your teammates die is "delaying". 2) You told me to fuck off or something like that, asked me why you needed to change, switched teams and went sailor again. So only after you were slayed twice did you change, and it wasn't really out of the kindness of your heart, and 3) we aren't all grownups (you included, I think) and a slur is a slur no matter the intended recipient.
I'll be here all week.