If you send me the screen of the conversation between golden and padawan, where he says he will join, everything is fine.
Yes, we have to search for a point which can't be changed on purpose. And that's a screen from the groupchat or the steamgroups.
Look I'm really trying to find a solution so he can play, but we have to enforce the rules too, so there is no point in discussing with me, just show me any other evidence (I said how it have to look) and we're fine