If you guys can't handle a different opinion to your own, an internet forum isn't the best place to be. Topics on these forums don't have to be reserved for appreciation only. As long as disagreement is done in a calm and respectful manner there's nothing wrong with it. Ted's initial post was fine. If he had posted insulting you all for glorifying war, then sure, it's not helpful at all. As it is, it was just an observation of his based on his own experiences.
That being said, just move on. It's really not that hard to not get triggered by someone posting a different opinion to yours. I've removed the posts, so lets just continue the topic of discussion.
On topic:
Dunkirk was pretty incredible, so I'd probably have to go for that.