If you're thinking of leaving, might I suggest joining a carefree regiment first. One with no strings attached, so you're not bogged down in drama, or training 1, 2 or 5 times a week.
A friendly regiment that welcomes new members, has no mandatory attendance and does not allow racism, religion or politics. One that lets its members have fun, but not at the expense of other members. One that instills in its members a respect for the opposite sex should one be present in the teamspeak, and one that required only one thing of its members. Tact.
So before you leave, consider joining that special, otherworldly, "you can lead a line on day one", ages 15 years and older, intergalactic space regiment before you go.
You'll be glad you did!
Love,
Overlord Thundersnow
Leader of the 00th Intergalactic Space Regiment
Father of Time, Space and 47,253 Dimensions