I'm sorry Boberton, but I think you may be coming on a little strong.
I take it as a possibility that you didn't like the 1stEPI very much back when? I shall clarify...
For one thing, I don't recall saying other regiments were "undisciplined", but I will be bold enough to say that we were more disciplined in many ways. And... we didn't yell at everyone for every little thing, and as far as the code of conduct and talking went, we didn't have much trouble keeping order, something you'd like to quickly shoot down the possibility of. The men were well trained and yet enjoyed themselves, otherwise we wouldn't have been hosting a regular 25-30 men per event back in the day(I know numbers have dropped in many regiments these days), it didn't usually take more than a "No talking, so we can hear the orders." I mean, ya, sometimes we did have someone who wouldn't shut up or listen well, but it was usually someone very young and inexperienced to it all... and to teamwork for that matter. Many officers, for the most part, were grown men, and they handled training folks very well and with understanding, if I do say so myself. I've played with several other regiments as a guest and some are better than others at this from what I've seen, but others, the guys talked so much that the officer had to repeat orders or someone in the line didn't catch a command and part of the line is sluggish or sloppy in moving out. And for the record, the men laughed and enjoyed themselves and each other very much, had very casual times, and likewise, very disciplined times, even with a -Gasp!!- language filter! (It didn't involve every little curse word, mind you, and it was more directed towards stupid-vulgar speech just in general.)
I man like yourself should realize that there are several ways of having fun and several different folks who seek it, and not just taking the norm as the absolute way. I think one answer I'll give you for this mystery of how we could possibly have had any fun at all with this supposedly "mean-yelling-restricting-overly-dsciplined" regiment is that we didn't draw in some of the usual crowd. We drew in the players that enjoyed and desired our realism, competitiveness( I say competitive, and that holds true in certain aspects, but we actually focused more on enjoying a Line Battle whether we won or not) and, of course, our friendly and mature attitude. They either were seeking it or enjoyed it when they came. Some did leave because of our ways(Though I recall some who came to our regiment because the one they were in wasn't to their liking), but I think everyone has their personal interests, that which sways between stupid-fun through stupid-strict.
I think the best metaphor for my argument will be
people and music, because humans have so many different tastes in music, and we don't all agree on the same thing... and some people might would like certain music if they'd just give it a try. I know I've had that exact experience before. I'll also use a more abstract metaphor to the topic, of
godmode and sandbox vs. limitation and regulation, because, when there are no limits at all and you can do anything without even trying, an activity gets boring real quick. There has to be some control, some limitation. Man wasn't made to be god. (The latter metaphor is limited to a particular side of this argument, and does not support it as a whole, so if you can relate it in the manner intended... well then, props for you.)
And that being said, there really isn't a clear-cut way to say that you or I am dead wrong or right in our opinions on the matter, because, depending on who you're catering, we're both right. And when it comes to the "well the majority of folks," I find that to often be a matter of assumption and opinion...
(And for the record, I voted fun on the poll, but I consider the top 2 options to be conductive to the 3rd.)