Can you explain exactly why you dislike Darthmod so much? I'm genuinely curious, as I've never played any other mod for ETW so I don't really have any sense of perspective on the matter.
Darthmod empire crashes in the campaign sadly, I can never finish it.
This is one of the problems I have. Also, I find it to be highly unrealistic, and the spam of new units overwhelms me. I also find the new CAI and BAI to not really be all that different than the vanilla CAI and BAI. They still rush you, collide with each other, shoot at the wrong targets; I understand there is only so much you can change, but it's kind of pathetic. Also, I find the small mini-mod additions to be unnecessary and useless, things like smoke and blood, sound mods, things like that.
I'm a fan of realism, and any mod that can get even close to it, I will enjoy. Unfortunately, DarthMod advertises as such, but it's hardly realistic, other than one or two things every here and there. I also personally am not fond of the Darth Vader himself, the guy who made the mods. He's snobby, entitled, and a douchebag. I think his awards for "best mods" got to his head, and now he thinks he's all that and a bag of chips.
There were a couple mods I thoroughly enjoyed. Blue and the Grey (ACW), European Wars II, and when I could get them to work, the Goutlard Overhaul Mini-mods.